questions

do you ever wonder if it isn't that we have the right to love, but rather we do not possess the capacity to love? is it that we do not want to be a hero in a heroic situation, but rather we do not have the ability to be heros? and what if we say we cannot change who we are because people should not change for others, but when we say that we are in reality hiding the fact that we simply can not change. what will the world come to if we do not realize our faults and mistakes? can we ever understand this?